I'm a woman and I like having pubic hair

I'm a woman and I feel the most feminine, empowered and comfortable when I have pubic hair.

I haven't found a single man (personally) who is comfortable with it, let alone find beautiful or sexy.

This means that in order to engage in sexual activity I feel obliged to shave, otherwise I know the other person will think I'm disgusting (I'm in a relationship, and he openly admits he doesn't really like it and he thinks it is unhygienic).

I've never identified as a feminist but sometimes I wish women were accepted in their natural states. That is when they are the most feminine, and I don't understand why a man wouldn't want to experience his partners natural, whole, true being.

I know people have preferences, but in my experience is it overwhelmingly more common that men desire women to look like plucked chickens down there.

I don't want to have to shave and get rashes and discomfort and soreness and stubble just because other people want me to, I don't want to go through the pain of waxing, but I feel like i have to do that in order to be viewed as beautiful or sexy or for anyone to want to engage in sex play with me (without secretly being grossed out)

That's my rant