No contact ubpd mom texting me (24f) through our grandma’s phone.

So my extremely enmeshed mom is texting me now because my grandma had reached out asking me to call her (my mom.) because she’s sick and misses me. I cut her off for about a year now and I feel much happier that way because of angry and unstable behavior towards me and others.

Yesterday, she was screaming at my sister demanding to talk to me or call her, which stressed her out to the point she (my sister) called me crying worried that our mother is going to hurt herself if she doesn’t talk to me.

I’m really adamant on not breaking this no-contact, but the fucking “I need you” is destroying me because it’s so wrong!! Like how can she not see the issues with this? After whole years for her to try and work on herself, absolutely nothing. And I’ve made so much progress on working on my anxiety from the trauma of living with her, and now this.

So my extremely enmeshed mom is texting me now because my grandma had reached out asking me to call her (my mom.) because she’s sick and misses me. I cut her off for about a year now and I feel much happier that way because of angry and unstable behavior towards me and others.

Yesterday, she was screaming at my sister demanding to talk to me or call her, which stressed her out to the point she (my sister) called me crying worried that our mother is going to hurt herself if she doesn’t talk to me.

I’m really adamant on not breaking this no-contact, but the fucking “I need you” is destroying me because it’s so wrong!! Like how can she not see the issues with this? After whole years for her to try and work on herself, absolutely nothing. And I’ve made so much progress on working on my anxiety from the trauma of living with her, and now this.