Social media has ruined love

Saying this as a woman who's not currently in a good place to be dating anyone, but social media has KILLED romance. Whatever happened to a man showing up at your door with flowers? Whatever happened to a man opening the door for you? Why do we have to have all these arbitrary rules these days? Roster, situationship, 3 date rule, side piece, etc. If you like someone and the feeling is mutual, BE WITH THEM! You should not have to act cold and nonchalant for someone to chase you. You should not have to date multiple people at the same time so you can decide who you want to be with. You should not have to lower yourself for a person with commitment issues. That. Is. Not. Love. And don't even get me started on the stupid rule that the more someone talks and posts about their relationship, the less happy they are. It's their relationship. Let them be open about it. The internet's idea of romance is fucking toxic and pathetic.