I Hate Living With My Boyfriend

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and moved in together three months ago and I think I’m over it. Cleanliness is extremely important to me and he is fully aware, but he can’t even pick up a Lysol wipe. He dampens a paper towel to wipe the grease off the oven and then uses the same exact paper towel to wipe the remainder of the counters. Doesn’t even fold the paper towel or anything! I’m not sure how many more times I can tell him to rinse the food out of the sink, but no, let’s just leave the egg shells in the sink every morning for my girlfriend to come home to in the middle of the afternoon. Taking the trash out? Not his job. I put one singular article of clothing in the washer to be washed when he washed his clothes bc I had stained it 20 minutes prior to when he started his wash. What does he do? He removed my sweatshirt from the wash because he “only wanted to wash his clothes.” Dishwasher needs to be put away? Video games are more important. I deep clean every Sunday, but this past weekend I did it on Saturday because I wanted to just sit and do nothing on Sunday. Finish my deep clean, he cooks dinner two hours later and absolutely obliterated the kitchen. He looks me dead in the face and says “clean the kitchen. I cooked, you can clean it.” Sorry WHAT?? Immediate argument. I refused to eat his dinner that he made for us a couple nights ago because he cut raw chicken on a cutting board, rinsed it with water, and then used same cutting board to cut produce and he got upset with me for not eating it! I can go on and on with this list because he will never listen to anything that I say or change anything that he does because it’s “not how he was taught.” He NEVER acted like this prior to us moving in together. He would constantly COMPLAIN that his prior roommates didn’t clean and that he needed to do everything. Another thing is his maturity - he has none. I’m so sick of the dirty jokes every single time I say absolutely anything. Won’t help me grocery shop because he’s too busy dancing in the middle of the aisle. I’m just exhausted, I feel like a single mom to a 24 year old child.