where are the normal men

There are no normal gay guys anywhere. I cant find a guy who likes normal things like working out or playing videogames. Its all guys who are either A) Immitating women, or B) The fattest most disgusting humans to walk this earth. Like recently I went to Chicago and all the gay guys are these effeminate soyboys. I have nothing against femininity in itself, but god damn, if im gay I want a man not a pseudo-woman. (and why the FUCK do they put on that voice) Also I went on grindr thinking i'd find a nice guy, but literally every message was just some guys gross hairy dick or a fat guy.

Maybe I could be honest with myself and accept what I really am if all the gay guys weren't so weird and gross.