Anyone here get molested at a sleepover?

I know I'm a regard for asking parenting advice on this sub, but the takes here are sadly 10x more sane than on any parenting sub.

My wife and I had a baby in the last year so I can't help be surrounded by parenting advice in real life and online. One thing that has surprised me is the shift around sleepovers.

When I was a kid I went to a sleepover every other weekend like 5th through 9th grade. Probably the most fun times I've ever had, just innocent fun with friends before discovering girls and alcohol. Also gaining perspective on how other families lived and the ways in which my own family was weird or normal.

Now I see everywhere online, and even from quite a few friends in real life, that they will not be letting their kids attend sleepovers, no exceptions, because they're probably going to get molested.

This seems to be the norm on parenting communities online, and any attempt to dissent is met with claims that it's way more common than one thinks.

Some of my turbo lib friends are against it (also citing the possibility of guns in the home) and my couple of far right friends are extremely against it for obvious QAnon adjacent reasons. Also some of my otherwise normal parents are against it too, but I would say of all the parents I know 2/3 are ok with it.

Sleepover being an issue had never even occurred to me. I'm still in favor, as I think any potential risk is small and is far outweighed by the benefits (parenting is full of this calculus unless you want to raise a bubble boy).

Anyone here get molested at a sleepover or know anyone who was? Is it way more common than I think?