its crazy how casual some cultures are about becoming parents for the first time due to an unplanned pregnancy

I can understand having 2 kids and then an unexpected third pregnancy like okay whatever

But when people are casual about their FIRST pregnancy being unplanned? Boggles my mind.

I live in a very Hispanic area and I’m continuously stunned seeing how casual these 20-23 year old girls are about having a baby with their boyfriend. It’s like…I don’t even know what to compare it to. 21 year old girls treating their first unplanned baby as casually as I would treat maybe like having a 3rd baby when I only planned on two. 🤯🤯🤯