Books where being dumped, abused, rejected, or cheated are NOT the fmc entire personality??

I am so sick of the same story line. FMC is neglected or bullied by pack, family, husband, etc. Some other woman comes along and causes divorce or rejection without even so much as a conversation. FMC reluctantly leaves. Builds herself back up either with help of new love, new baby, or the inheritance she ignored while with Mr no communication narcissist. He sees her and without a concern for all the pain he caused starts trying to win her back but doesn't bother to resolve relationship with the other girl before he starts falling for her. Other girl makes her whole life about ending FMC life, reputation, etc. FMC seems to end up hospitalized a lot but MMC doesn't really care. They eventually get back together but SHOCKINGLY the cycle just repeats. Divorce happens again. These books go round and round and round. The one truth that will resolve literally EVERYTHING never gets revealed unless a new drama and new hidden truth is added to the mix. It's literally soap opera novels. I just want one where the people actually seem real. Who the hell would ever go back to an ex anyway? We all know that never ever works. What woman would finally escape abuse and ever allow the abuser to even be around her or in her life? It's like click bait turned into a book. I am so sick of it. I want drama but also resolution and vengeance. Or relationship with communication and trust. People who actually use their brains and their mouths to resolve conflicts before they blow up into hospitalization and kidnapping. Where are the authorities when abused woman keep showing up at Dr? Where and why is it believable that so many Drs are willing to lie about illness or perform unnecessary surgeries?

---- sorry.... Needed to vent. So annoyed.