Gentle Parenting Terms

So basically here recently I have been enjoying instead of being just a sarcastic asshole I’ve been using gentle parenting terms. Ex: yelling voice “I asked you to take the trash out 20 mins ago, why the fuck is it still sitting here” - Wife

“Wow hunny those are some big emotions your feeling right now” - Me

still yelling “you mother fucker” - Wife

“Take a deep breath and use your speaking voice, it’s hard to understand your screaming voice”

Do you guys have any similar terms that you use or have heard used, would like to add to my tool box?