I’m bored of dating

I’m sick of picking new and interesting places to take girls on dates. Sick of listening to 30 minute monologues. I’m actually out of date spots in my area and I don’t drink. There’s only so many variations of arcades and golf to go to. I’m tired of getting told that my dates had a great time but I don’t see it reflected in their follow on actions. And I’m absolutely mortified that I don’t care. I don’t want to hear about your philosophy degree, or what crazy stuff your friends did. My least favorite part about it all is the awareness you have to have when dating. Always wondering if they just got out of a relationship and are just nodding along in order to take their mind off it. Tired of actually any game that gets played at all. Absolutely sick of being ultra understanding and chill on the date and then assessing it with a clear head the day after. And on a petty note, I’m sick of all the suggestions that these girls give for a follow up hangout (if they do that) being free. That’s just petty though.