My (20m) sister (17f) and my best friend (19m) are having a baby and she won’t talk to me. I just want to tell her it will be ok.

I posted before the whole story but my sister and I have no had an easy life. Our parents divorced, our mom and grandma passed away, and my dad had a new family to focus on. I left home after high school (not that I had a choice really) and am in the Air Force. My best friend I’m calling him Jando here has been like my brother. Ride or die, always there for each other. He’s been dating my sister I’ll call Ella for almost three years and the other day he called and let me know that they’re having a baby in June. My dad won’t let Ella get an abortion and is trying to have her give the baby to a woman at their church who can’t have kids.

I’m pissed off at Jando. I trusted him with my sister who’s my only family left and he does this shit. He said they were careful but how could they be so stupid. My dad and his wife are going to kick Ella out the second she turns 18 and I live a four hour plane ride away and can’t help.

I was supposed to go back next weekend but I don’t want to. Ella won’t take my calls or answer my texts. Jando has been texting me but I don’t want to talk to him. I always stay with him and he picks me up from the airport when I go home but I’m pissed at him. I feel like he ruined my sisters life. She had so much potential and even had an almost full ride to college. He said he’s moving back in with his parents once his lease is up and they’re going to help them with the baby which is nice but I’m furious.

Why won’t Ella answer my calls? I’m not mad at her. I’m not even disappointed in her I just want to talk to her. She’s my only family left and I’m just devastated this is happening. I wanted to give her money for books and fun stuff at college and maybe even take her to see our girl dua lipa but now she’s going to be a mom. I don’t know what to do and she won’t respond to me.