Girls, what are your opinions or thoughts about boys who self harm? Or after seeing it?

I know it’s a pretty huge stigma for guys who self harm or show deep emotions. For me it’ll probably be inevitable with whoever I’m going into a relationship in the future because my shoulder is pretty fucked up. I’m just curious because I get really anxious thinking about the future and how to act and talk about it or what to feel. I’m scared about being ashamed about it explaining it and or being self conscious about it I’m front of them and whatnot. A normal nervous wreck me.