Miranda telling Big he’s crazy to get married - Carries reaction

I’m new to the sub, but not the show or movies. I’m on my millionth rewatch of the first movie. I just got to the part where Miranda comes back into the party and tells Big he’s crazy to get married. It got me thinking, if I were Carrie, I wouldn’t blame Miranda at all.

If someone said that to me the night before I was getting married, I’d laugh it off and it wouldn’t convince me I should back out. That’s all Big. And that’s his track record. I definitely think Carrie overreacted to Miranda telling her that. Perhaps Miranda could have told her right away instead of waiting, but Big being Big is ultimately to blame for his cold feet.