Women of Reddit - My wife and I would like recommendations for some good, introductory level erotica for women. (It's possible, but she likely won't take the time to read smut, so are sexy/smut podcasts a thing?)

My wife (31F) and I (33M) have a great partnership and marriage with good communication. Our main mismatch is in our libidos - I have a high libido, and while she very much enjoys sex, and is a beautiful, sexy creature when we get into it, she often can go days and weeks without it ever crossing her mind. I on the other hand have Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch as my primary love languages, so I really need more of that energy in my life to be happy. I want sex and sex-adjacent topics to be something I can share with my wife, like a special hobby that only we get to be a part of. She want's this too, but has trouble getting out of her own head about it.

I love an afternoon build-up with lots of flirting and foreplay, carrying that energy for a while before a wonderful finale. Conversely, once she gets aroused, she prefers to just get down to business, which, don't get me wrong, leads to some great sex with great mutual orgasms, but in her words, she wants to "get it over with" lol for lack of a better phrase. I enjoy a marathon - she is more comfortable with sprints.

We had a great talk about this last weekend. She has had some turbulent history with sex in the past - losing her virginity wasn't a great situation, etc. - so she has a lot of shame and guilt built up around the subject. I know about all that, so I try to be very understanding and patient with trying to get us to meet in the middle on this.

In our chat, we came to the revelation that, in general, just the state of being aroused, of being horny, is an uncomfortable place for her to be. She either wants to push that feeling back down and ignore it, or rush to the finish line. On the other hand, I realized that I spend a healthy amount of time masturbating and exploring my sexuality on my own, while she rarely does, so no wonder I am more comfortable being in that headspace.

I know that, by and large, porn is likely not going to do much for her, and might even make her more uncomfortable. So, I got her blessing to reach out to the Women of Reddit to see if there are any great recommendations out there for sexy, introductory level, smut/erotica (ideally podcasts) that she could indulge in to work on becoming more comfortable with herself as a sexual person, without the pressure of me being in the situation.

We feel like if she can find some level of personal comfort and things she realizes she likes without feeling weird about it, we can then come together with a growing understanding of ourselves as a sexual couple.

Any ideas out there for us?