spiritual significance of the death of loved one 1 day before your birthday?

TW: death of a loved one

sorry if this is off topic or better suited for another group, but something has been on my mind & i just can’t shake the feeling that there’s some spiritual significance or connection within this situation. my best friend was murdered 1 day before my birthday. we had a very special & intense soul connection & often referred to each other as soul sisters. our birthdays are close together & we’re the same star sign. my friend was (and still is) a very powerful force with very intense energy that can be felt by so many people, even people who never met her. the grief is incredibly intense & i know it’s definitely playing a big role in my mind trying to make connections & search for meaning within all of this. but i still felt like it would be worth asking for other people’s insight, maybe there’s someone out there who can share their opinion & give me a different perspective on this. i’m not sure. maybe there’s no meaning within it & was just a horrible coincidence. but i just can’t stop thinking about it. apologies again if this post just doesn’t belong on this sub. thank you for reading. (pls be kind im rlly putting myself out there by asking this. it’s a tough topic for me to talk about.)