Finally 18 years old! Custody OVER!

I deleted the "Parenting Time Calendar" last week. Custody is officially OVER. We made it! No more pickups! No more facilitating BM's and SD's relationship!

BM has been panicking about this for months. She relied heavily on my SO to keep her informed, even though she has the same access to the same information as we do. She would demand SO and SD tell her everything about everything, and when they didn't want to she would accuse them of hiding something. She will actually have to read her emails now. Crazy!

BM is also afraid that SD is not going to want to visit her anymore because they have a chaotic relationship. BM has relied on SO to mediate her relationship with SD and facilitate visits. She has asked him what the "new plan" will be, because she is hoping for his continued efforts in facilitating visitations. There is no plan. Duh. BM will have to actually try and work on her own relationship with SD, and that means forcing SD to visit won't go over well anymore. If SD doesn't want to to go then our front door is locked. Not sorry!

It has been 14 years. This new chapter is weird and exciting. Let's goo!