Mom guilt about sending my guy to daycare

Idk why I’m posting this, maybe for commiseration or just to rant? My guy is 18 months and has been in daycare since he was 12 weeks old, 2 days a week. I have severe guilt about this because of how often he gets sick (currently has hand foot mouth for the second time). I have a friend who has a ton of family help and has never needed daycare and always jabs at me for having my baby in daycare- for example, says “he’s sick AGAIN from daycare?!?!” Or “I don’t understand why people would move to an area without any help” or “why would people have babies just to send them to get daycare???” Like obviously it’s not my first choice to use daycare and I would love saving money and having family help, but that’s just not our situation. Quitting my job unfortunately isn’t an option. The mom guilt is eating me alive and I’m having a pretty rough mental health day on top of caring for my sick baby.😢that’s it. That’s the post, thanks for reading ❤️

Edit: reading all the comments while my baby is napping and I feel so much better I wish I could reply to all of you ❤️ definitely didn’t expect all this support and kind words but I am so grateful! Thank you❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻