First class upgrade refund?

Infrequent flyer here. Purchased economy tickets with corporate card and then purchased upgrade to first class with personal credit card.

purchased wrong date. I was able to change economy seats to the right date and was able to purchase upgrade again.

I thought the initial first class upgrade seat charges (to and from) would fall off my card but it hasn’t. Before I call I wanted to know if this is typical and it is what it is?

Totally my fault with the wrong date initially so if I have to eat it, then lesson learned. Thanks in advance for educating me!