i do not feel bad for brittany at all

i’m watching for the first time and i’m on season 8 right before jax and brittany’s wedding and i’m in the loop enough to know that they’re divorced or in the middle of one (?) but jax just uninvited tom from the wedding and i feel like i’m going absolutely crazy seeing the other cast members expecting sandavol to grovel back to jax and i cannot wait for the season 8 reunion for everyone to hopefully see what i saw, which was sandavol ASKING jax a QUESTION. i’m sorry but it just wasn’t that serious! and then stassi wants to say that sandavol is trying to seem “woke” like ariana and tom haven’t been the most progressive, open-minded people reality tv has seen in years.

everything jax says to brittany is so obviously manipulative and ill-intended. like trying to convince her to uninvite ariana because your character was challenged?? and THEN lisa gives the most heartbreaking sentiment to get them through the next week leading up to their wedding about how “life is short” after the death of her mother and jax’s only takeaway was “disrespecting me isn’t worth it because i’ll be quick to cut you out of my life”. their morals were absolutely right to be questioned because if you were REALLY on the right side of history these conversations wouldn’t be so hard to have.

brittany sat there and watched jax lack all remorse for every wrong thing he’s done in his life, had a million and one people in her ear telling her to RUN, cheat on every single partner he’s had, watched him lie, cheat and tell another girl he never wants to marry brittany, let him embarrass her on national tv over and over and over and over again (but god forbid that apology is as loud as that disrespect) then REFUSED to talk about any of it during their engagement, cut his MOM and his BEST FRIEND of 20 years out of his life and she thought she was the chosen one?? oh i have to laugh..

i wish more than anything, she would just realize the only reason jax is with her is because of the lack of self respect she has. she is so incredibly submissive, naive and forgiving and he’s somehow convinced her that she’s running shit when i’m POSITIVE i’ve heard her ask “how high?” when jax has told her to jump. she’s not the strong, independent, self respecting woman (like the other women) she thinks she is. and maybe it’d be easiest to blame her mom, but i reallyyy don’t feel bad for her. this outcome feels so deserving and necessary, i can’t even pretend to harbor an ounce of sympathy.

to quote jax “does it matter if i cheated one time or ten times? no” which he’s somehow gotten brittany to agree with?? i wonder how much she’ll agree when those “ten times” turn into an incurable std.