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Destra125

2025-01-09 16:29:16

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You cannot support a family of 8+ even in a LCOL area very well at all on $20 an hour. The average cost per year to raise a child is about $26,000.

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Yeah probably

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Kids are expensive and that is before you know if any of them are going to have special needs or medical issues or a rough delivery/nicu stay. I’m a stay at home mom to our shared child and my husband has my SS he pays child support and other expenses for and we still haven’t felt ready to have a second (and final) baby partially due to the cost of it all. We live in a state with a very low cost of living and my husband makes good money. Could we have more kids and make it work? Sure but it wouldn’t be the same standard of living (nothing extravagant as is). With that being said, I think you need to be very up front with potential partners about how many kids you want because it’s something that is a deal breaker for most people. I told my husband I wanted 2-3 kids of my own on the first date when he asked me if I wanted kids and told me that he had SS. He told me he didn’t want any more than 3 kids. If he would have told me that he only wanted SS or expected me to count SS as my kid and only have one kid of my own I wouldn’t have continued dating him. It’s totally valid to still want your own children in a relationship with a single parent but it needs to be communicated up front and something you both agree to.

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I really appreciate the advice. I'll give that some thought. I also appreciate the insight. Tbh Feel alittle emotional reading some of these comments. Really feel.. I'll never live up to my dad's life.. he was my biggest role model. Like my hero. I see him with us, and his wife. He's happy.. it's crazy the one thing I want in life. I'm told I need a college degree, or own a business to have it. Yet I see others figure it out.. I don't want an extravagant life.. give me a modular, on 5 acers. A reliable daily, with fast internet, and im content materialistically..

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