What’s something you’ve done as an adult to make up for what your inner child missed out on?
This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.
2025.7.10 I finally moved into a big house
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
What do you do when your mom acts like your entire childhood never happened?
This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.
2025.7.8 Why am I always the one to blame?
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
Do your parents accuse you of being "too cold" after you became an adult?
This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.
Do your parents accuse you of being "too cold" after you became an adult?
This is still a new community where we're trying to frame the discussion of a very overlooked part of the human condition: childhood emotional neglect by primary caregivers. Help us get things started by contributing your thoughts and inviting others to join.
2025.7.6 Same Story, Again
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
If you could talk to your childhood self, what would you say to help her feel safe and heal?
This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.
2025.7.5 Thank You, Little Cat
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
What is something you did that made you feel free for the very first time?
This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.
2025.7.2 I refused to help my mother pay off her gambling debts
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
What’s something you’ve stopped trying to explain because nobody listens?
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2025.6.30 Sooooo Cute
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
What’s something you’ve stopped trying to explain because nobody listens?
For redditors identifying as or interested in INFJs (Ni-Fe-Ti-Se) as described by MBTI.
2025.6.30 Things I Never Say Out Loud
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
What’s something you’ve stopped trying to explain because nobody listens?
This is still a new community where we're trying to frame the discussion of a very overlooked part of the human condition: childhood emotional neglect by primary caregivers. Help us get things started by contributing your thoughts and inviting others to join.
2025.6.25 When I was six years old, I wrote a goodbye letter. I stood on the balcony and started asking the question “Why?”
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
What’s something you’ve stopped trying to explain because nobody listens?
This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.
2025.6.23 A girl can be everything
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
2025.6.20 We are girls, we are not a mistake
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
What’s one thing you thought was your fault, but later realized it wasn’t?
This is still a new community where we're trying to frame the discussion of a very overlooked part of the human condition: childhood emotional neglect by primary caregivers. Help us get things started by contributing your thoughts and inviting others to join.
2025.6.19 Why did he become part of my life?
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
When did you realize your family dynamic wasn’t 'normal'?
This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.
2025/6/17 why am I so obsessed with becoming stronger?
Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.
When did you realize your family dynamic wasn’t 'normal'?
This is still a new community where we're trying to frame the discussion of a very overlooked part of the human condition: childhood emotional neglect by primary caregivers. Help us get things started by contributing your thoughts and inviting others to join.
